* ams: update to build with gcc10/c++20

* remove mno-outline-atomics

* ams: take care of most TODO C++20s

* fusee/sept: update for gcc10

* whoosh, your code now uses pre-compiled headers

* make: dependency fixes

This was tested using `https://github.com/node-dot-cpp/alloc-test` plus a few other by-hand tests.

It seems to work for the case we care about (sysmodules without thread cache-ing).

External users are advised to build with assertions on and contact SciresM if you find issues.

This is a lot of code to have gotten right in one go, and it was written mostly after midnight while sick, so there are probably un-noticed issues.